Why is my 2-month pregnant wife so angry that she wants an abortion?

Guizhou News, May 16 (Reporter Zhou Qiang from Qianzhong Morning News) On the afternoon of May 14, Luo Ling (pseudonym), who was more than two months pregnant, suddenly found that her husband did not go out to work, but instead went home to play mahjong with neighbors after sending her out to work every day. Luo Ling felt that she had to go out to work as a pregnant woman, but her husband was "lazy and addicted to gambling", so she was very angry and asked her husband for a divorce. She immediately rushed to the Guizhou Workers' Sanatorium to register for an abortion...

I got home and found my husband playing mahjong and I was very angry

Luo Ling, 22 years old, is from Huishui, Guizhou. She and her husband Zhang Yun (pseudonym) had been working in Zhuhai, Guangdong.

"We have obtained the marriage certificate, but we have not held the wedding banquet according to the custom." Luo Ling said that two months ago, she found out that she was pregnant. The weather in Zhuhai, Guangdong was getting hotter and hotter, and she couldn't stand it anymore. She and her husband discussed going back to Guiyang to work. Luo Ling actually planned that they would go back to Guiyang to work for a few months, and then go home to hold the wedding banquet during the National Day.

They returned to Guiyang in early May. Luo Ling now works as a nanny near Yunshang Village in Huaxi. Her husband told her that he worked in a tissue factory in Huaxi. In the 10 days since returning to Guiyang, Zhang Yun sent Luo Ling to her employer's home every morning, then lied that he was going to work in the factory and went home to play mahjong.

The day before yesterday afternoon, Luo Ling suddenly felt unwell, so she went to the tissue factory to look for Zhang Yun, wanting him to take her to the hospital for a checkup. But the people at the tissue factory told Luo Ling that there was no such person in the factory, and Luo Ling was stunned at the time.

She hurried back to the rental house where they lived and saw Zhang Yun playing mahjong with several neighbors. She was very angry.

"Aren't you going to work? Why are you playing mahjong here!" Luo Ling yelled at Zhang Yun. Seeing this, the neighbors left unhappily. Later, Luo Ling found out that Zhang Yun had lied about finding a job and that he was playing mahjong all day. Luo Ling was so angry that she burst into tears on the spot.

Apologizing and admitting mistakes don't work, so I want a divorce

Zhang Yun immediately apologized to his wife and admitted his mistake. But Luo Ling was still furious and announced that she wanted a divorce that afternoon.

"When we were in Zhuhai, he also said he was driving a motorcycle taxi to pick up passengers, but he asked me for money every day. Later, my sister found out that he was actually playing mahjong every day." Luo Ling complained to people around her that this time she really couldn't stand Zhang Yun's gambling and laziness, and she must divorce.

Afterwards, she went to the staff sanatorium in Huaxi District and registered for an abortion. Her action frightened Zhang Yun, who repeatedly admitted his mistake, and others also persuaded her. After more than three hours of mediation, Luo Ling decided not to have an abortion for the time being.

However, she asked Zhang Yun to return to Huishui immediately, and Zhang Yun agreed to her request. Yesterday morning, they returned to Huishui.

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Don't let entertainment affect your relationship

"Guiyang people love playing mahjong. You can see that the clubs of all sizes on the street are enough to prove this." Mr. Liu, a citizen, said that when Guiyang people go out to play, they just play mahjong in different places. But mahjong can also affect family relationships. In response to Luo Ling's experience, our reporter randomly interviewed many citizens yesterday, and they expressed their views on mahjong.

If the husband hits the wife but she doesn't, there will be conflicts.

Ms. Lin, a citizen, said that she herself does not like playing mahjong, but her husband does. Because of this, Ms. Lin and her husband have quarreled many times. "Playing mahjong does affect family relationships." Ms. Lin said that playing mahjong takes up a lot of her husband's time, leaving him with no time to manage the family. "I get very angry when he plays mahjong. If he loses money, he is in a bad mood, and I am in a bad mood too, and we will definitely have a big fight."

Ms. Lin believes that it is okay to play mahjong occasionally, but one should not become addicted to it for a long time.

In the face of such a situation, is there a solution? Some citizens said that if one of the couple loves to play mahjong, then they should persuade him or her to understand that mahjong is just a pastime and should be played less.

The couple fought more seriously

"If only one of the two people plays mahjong, something bad will happen." Citizen Mr. Zhou said that the best solution is for both of them to play. "If both of them play mahjong, there will be no quarrel."

However, Mr. Zhou's view was not shared by other citizens. Some citizens said that playing mahjong with two people would have more serious consequences than playing alone. "If two people play mahjong, it's okay if they win, but after a long time, it's impossible for them to win every time, and conflicts are most likely to occur at this time," said citizen Mr. Zhang.

Mr. Zhang also said that one of his friends divorced because both husband and wife loved playing mahjong. In the end, both lost money, and both were in a bad mood. They quarreled and ended up getting divorced. "The relationship was good at first, but mahjong ruined it."