Pay attention to relieving psychological stress after artificial abortion

The psychological pressure of artificial abortion on women varies greatly depending on their marital status and the relationship between the two parties: the mental pressure of artificial abortion before marriage is much greater. Those with a good relationship feel that they can bear it and even have no aversion, while those with a bad relationship will feel particularly painful and wronged. Many women are very afraid of unexpected pregnancy and even feel angry.

A woman who had a bad relationship with her husband talked about her feelings when she had an abortion: "It was the third day after my period ended, and he was very excited, and I ended up getting pregnant. I felt very angry and in a very bad mood. One reason was that it was very troublesome, and the other was that I was very traditional, and I felt embarrassed, afraid that others would say that I had a strong sexual desire and was irrational. I believe that both men and women should be rational about sexual desire and be able to control it; artificial abortion is not a good thing. If it happens, it will sound like you are not well-educated, and people will think you have no inhibitions and no self-control."

Some women complain that men don’t care about their abortions: “People say that abortion should be like taking care of a baby, but my husband didn’t accompany me when I had the abortion, and it was so painful.” Because of the bad relationship between husband and wife and the lack of care for the woman’s physical and mental pain, women have a strong aversion to pregnancy and abortion; women’s aversion to pregnancy and abortion in turn worsens the relationship between husband and wife. This is a hopeless vicious cycle and may become an important reason for the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife and even the dissolution of marriage.

Therefore, when a woman has a miscarriage, the man should give her appropriate spiritual care, accompany her as much as possible, show love, grief and care, and let the woman feel it, so as to reduce her psychological pressure and thus alleviate her physical and mental pain. Women should also have a correct understanding that they are also responsible for the failure of contraception and pay attention to it in the future.