Four behaviors of men may increase the probability of their wives developing cervical cancer. Women should know how to say "no"

As a gynecologist, I have encountered many distressing cases in my daily diagnosis and treatment work. Among them, the experience of one patient left a deep impression on me. Xiaoli, a 35-year-old woman, should have been in the most brilliant years of her life, but she looked haggard because of the troubles of the disease. She walked into my clinic with trepidation and fear. As soon as she sat down, she couldn't wait to say: "Doctor, I feel very uncomfortable recently. I always have irregular bleeding in my lower body, and there is a peculiar smell. This situation has lasted for a while. I am really scared and don't know what's wrong with me." I patted her shoulder gently, trying to calm her down, and said: "Don't worry, let's slowly find the cause. Tell me in detail when this symptom started, and whether there are other abnormal feelings?" Xiaoli tried to calm down and began to talk about her symptoms and recent life. After a series of detailed examinations, including cervical smears, HPV tests, and imaging examinations, the final result was like a bolt from the blue, which almost broke Xiaoli - she was diagnosed with early cervical cancer.

Xiaoli's eyes widened, tears welled up in her eyes, she cried in disbelief and asked me:

"Doctor, I have always paid attention to my personal hygiene and have regular physical examinations, so how could I get this disease?

I have children, what about my family?"

I handed her a tissue, looked at her eyes full of despair and helplessness, and patiently explained:

“The causes of cervical cancer are complex and not caused by a single factor.

Some behaviors may increase your risk of developing disease.

Let me first understand how your married life is like with your spouse."

Xiaoli sobbed, her voice trembling:

"Doctor, my husband... he doesn't pay much attention to hygiene in that area. He doesn't like to take a bath usually. He is even more perfunctory before and after sex and rarely washes his private parts seriously.

And sometimes…”

Next, I will talk to you in detail about the following four behaviors of men, which may increase the probability of his wife developing cervical cancer.

The first behavior is not paying attention to personal hygiene.

Personal hygiene is very important in the life of a couple.

Some men do not pay much attention to their own cleanliness in daily life, especially their private parts.

If you do not clean yourself carefully before and after sexual intercourse, it is easy for bacteria and viruses to enter the female body.

I said to Xiaoli:

"Just like your husband, if he doesn't pay attention to cleanliness, those germs may 'invade' your body and cause damage to your cervix.

It may just be some minor inflammation at first, but if it accumulates over a long period of time, the problem will become more and more serious.”

After hearing this, Xiaoli lowered her head in regret:

"I have advised him before, but he always ignored me and thought I was too nagging. I should have been more resolute at the time."

The second behavior is asking for sexual intercourse during menstruation.

Menstruation is a special period for women.

At this time, the woman's cervix is ​​slightly open, the endometrium is shedding, and the body's resistance is significantly reduced.

Having sex at this time is tantamount to opening the "door" to disease, which can easily lead to infection.

I told Xiaoli seriously:

“During menstruation, a woman’s body is extremely vulnerable, like a castle with a hole in its fortifications.

Having sex at this time is like giving the germs a 'green light' to enter the body and cause trouble.

They can wreak havoc and cause various inflammations, which, in the long run, may increase the risk of cervical cancer.”

Xiaoli clenched her fists angrily:

"He insisted a few times when I was on my period, and I softened my heart and agreed. I was so stupid!"

The third behavior is having too many sexual partners.

In today's society, some men may have too many sexual partners for various reasons.

This behavior is not only morally and ethically problematic, but also poses a huge health hazard.

If a man has too many sexual partners, the chance of contracting viruses such as HPV will greatly increase.

Even during sexual intercourse with his wife, the virus may be transmitted to her, thereby increasing the possibility of her developing cervical cancer.

I looked at Xiaoli and said earnestly:

"This is a very important factor. If men are not disciplined, it will pose a great threat to women's health.

The HPV virus is like a hidden 'killer' that can lurk in a woman's body without her knowing, waiting for the right moment to attack."

Xiaoli was silent for a long time, tears welling up in her eyes, and she said in a choked voice:

"I never thought about this, but now I think about it and it really scares me."

The fourth behavior is refusing to use condoms.

Condoms play an important role in the lives of couples. They not only serve as contraceptives, but also block the spread of viruses and bacteria to a large extent.

However, some men refuse to use it in pursuit of so-called "realism", which undoubtedly puts women in danger.

I said to Xiaoli:

"A condom is like a protective shield that protects you from many 'enemies', but without it, you are more vulnerable to harm.

Those viruses and bacteria can easily enter your body and pose a threat to your health.”

Xiaoli bit her lip and said self-reproachfully:

"I should have insisted on letting him use it. It was me who failed to protect myself."

Xiaoli’s experience is heartbreaking, and it also serves as a wake-up call to women in general.

When faced with these behaviors of their husbands that may endanger their health, women must have the courage to say "no".

You know, protecting your health is vital.

Female friends should not compromise because they are afraid of affecting the relationship between husband and wife or because of pressure from their husbands, because health is the foundation of everything.

Finally, let me give you some knowledge about cervical cancer.

Cervical cancer is a common gynecological malignancy, but fortunately, if it can be detected and treated early, the prognosis is usually good.

In addition to the above-mentioned male behavioral factors, HPV infection is the main cause of cervical cancer.

In addition, smoking reduces the body's immunity, making cervical cells more vulnerable to viruses such as HPV;

Long-term oral contraceptive use may affect hormone levels and increase the risk of disease;

Multiple births can cause certain damage to the cervix. If abnormalities occur during the repair process, it may also cause cancer.

Women with weakened immune systems, whose bodies have a weakened ability to fight viruses and bacteria, are also more likely to develop cervical cancer.

It is recommended that female friends have regular gynecological examinations, including cervical smear examinations, HPV tests, etc. Generally speaking, women who have sex should have a gynecological examination once a year. At the same time, it is necessary to maintain good living habits, a balanced diet, moderate exercise, quitting smoking and limiting alcohol, and getting enough sleep, all of which will help enhance your immunity. If you find abnormal symptoms, such as irregular vaginal bleeding, abnormal increase in leucorrhea, odor, bleeding after sexual intercourse, etc., you should seek medical attention in time and do not delay. I hope that every woman can care for her body, stay away from the threat of cervical cancer, and live a healthy and happy life. Remember, your health is yours! Follow me to get more women's health knowledge~