How to adjust psychologically after an abortion?

Artificial abortion puts great psychological pressure on women. Depending on the marital status and the relationship between the two parties, the feelings will be quite different: the mental pressure of artificial abortion before marriage is much greater; those with a good relationship feel that they can bear it, or even have no aversion; those with a bad relationship will feel particularly painful and wronged. Many women are very afraid of unexpected pregnancy and even feel angry. A woman who had a bad relationship with her husband talked about her feelings when she had an artificial abortion: "That time was the third day after my menstruation ended. He was very excited, and I ended up getting pregnant. I felt very angry and in a very bad mood.

One reason is that it is troublesome, and the other is that I am a very traditional person and I feel embarrassed to be told that I have a strong sexual desire and am irrational. I believe that both men and women should be rational and able to control their sexual desire. Artificial abortion is not a good thing. If it happens, it will sound like you are not well-educated and will be seen as having no inhibitions and no self-control. "Some women complain that men do not care about their abortions: "People say that abortion should be like raising a baby, but my lover did not accompany me when I had the abortion, and it was very painful. "Because of the bad relationship between husband and wife and the lack of care for the woman's physical and mental pain, women have a strong aversion to pregnancy and abortion. Women's aversion to pregnancy and abortion in turn worsens the relationship between husband and wife. This is a hopeless vicious cycle and may become an important reason for the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife and even the disintegration of marriage. Therefore, when the woman has a miscarriage, the man should give appropriate spiritual care, accompany her as much as possible, show love, heartache and concern, and let the woman feel it, reduce the woman's psychological pressure, and thus alleviate the woman's physical and mental pain. Women should also have a correct understanding that they are also responsible for the failure of contraception and pay attention to it in the future.